Being single in LA sucks, my last "girlfriend" was almost eleven years ago. I am still trying to get over that FIDM girl the last few months who broke my heart. Even the women on Myspace seem mostly fake, so many are just advertisements or spammers, who is the real deal anymore?
Looking at this map, you'd think california would be a great place for single straight chicks.. heh.
Oh, and whoever said california is all about tans and hard bodies hasn't been to lovely SF.
This would be more interesting if it included same sex couples. I bet LA would be alot smaller...
Ive got the demons in me, Ive got to brush them all away.......
Most females that are even slightly desireable in southern California are either taken or are too picky for their own good.
not true! perhaps you just don't know how to spot the good ones among us.
I wonder if this includes the gay/lesbian community
I just got back from NY..and god DAMN that map doesn't lie!! I could walk the streets of Manhattan for weeks just watching the women roll by..
Disclosure - October 12 - Reno, NV.
Treasure Island Music Festival - October 19 - San Francisco, CA.
Portugal, The Man - October 22 - Reno, NV.
Cut Copy - October 31 - Reno, NV.
Phoenix w/ Alt-J - December 5 - Reno, NV.
COACHELLA '07, '08, '09, '11, '13
I think the good ones are taken, trust me, I am not shy about going up to attractive women. I am working on my confidence level, it can be hit and miss.
Last edited by kroqken; 04-12-2007 at 11:13 PM.
Being single really sucks. Yeah, you can do whatever you want, but it cannot replace the feeling of love and being in love with the right person. I had my heart broken this year, and it is the worst feeling. It sucks so hard, I really put my heart into it. She was an amazing artist and was cute too, had awesome taste in music. Ending whatever we had was her choice, not mine. However, I am trying to move on and to make her realize that in the long term, losing me is her loss.
No, that was someone else. This girl took my heart. I do wish her well, I think she is doing well according to her MySpace, but she will not communicate with me. SHe is attending the Fashion Institute of Technology, which is in New York City (Chelsea region).
That is what I am doing. Of course, this was the girl I would have married. Oh well, I will find someone else, I never say surrender.
Actually I do not drink, I just buy the ladies drinks.
So I should be cheap like Tom Leykis?
Tom Leykis is a smart guy about some things. That happens to be one of them. He's an asshole about other stuff. Don't buy women drinks right away though. If you're on a date that is one thing, but not when you don't even know them at the bar. Your conversation should be your in.
I always try to conversate with the ladies. It is just that Leykis seems so offputting in his advice. It seems to stem from almost a hatred toward women. Maybe it is just an act. He seems too intelligent a guy to have to resort to mysogany.
I think Leykis is exaggerating the overall points of not totally kissing a woman's ass to get her attention, never losing who you are, and having confidence. Traits that women ultimately find sexy. The way he delivers the message is an act, but there's a lot of truth to what he's actually saying.
I know Leykis means well for his (mostly) male audience. However, he has had four failed marriages. He should have learned after the first or second marriage failed on his ass.
Haha very true, he has been divorced a few times. I think his advice may speak more to getting a woman's attention and getting laid. Relationships are entirely different beasts. And his marriages may have "failed" because he wasn't willing to compromise who he was. In which case I wouldn't necessarily call them failures.
He should have known what the woman was like going into the marriage. It would have saved him a lot of misery and a lot of his earlier net worth. It is often easier to just live together than to get married.
I agree with you for the most part. It's just so hard to think straight when you're in a relationship. I know I've had 2 serious relationships that I was kinda emo with after they ended. Now I realize I dodged a couple of serious bullets. I was just caught up in everything.....the heat of the moment I guess. And sometimes women just straight up lie and misrepresent themselves. Hell, I'm sure men do it to.
I last dated a girl I got emo with, but she had a terrible temper and I had to walk on eggshells around her. Losing her hurts, but I think I learned a lot just from the time that I did spend with her.