There's no one answer -- this is obviously going to be different for every woman. Some women like gentler stimulation and some like more intense; some like external stimulation only while others prefer external stimulation paired with penetration. And moreover, each woman may want a different thing on each day depending on her mood, time in her cycle, etc etc.
Of course there are basic concerns like whether a machine actually works and does not break, the ease of pressing buttons or changing settings, and the issue of battery life (if it's not a plug-in) and whether it is easily washable. But beyond those basic factors, I think it's really hard to say whether one is "better" than another -- it all depends on the individual and her mood.
You are overthinking. What is with the diatribe these days?
I think it was a pretty reasonable response to someone asking a specific question. You might want to look up the meaning of "diatribe."
Sorry, and I hope I'm wrong, but your long lists, wordy responses, or just random interjections are beginning to sound a bit bitter. Whether it's the photography thread or the girls only thread or here obviously, your 2 cents lately have been more like 20 and people have been lapping it up like it's the last of the bong water.
Gunz, I have no desire to start a fight. We already talked about this privately on Facebook after your response to one of my posts, and I thought we were good. If you want to repeat what you already said to me privately in public, fine, but publicly criticizing someone is not a very productive way to encourage changed behavior. I don't want to have the same conversation again so I'm not going to respond further.