People get in bad moods for a variety of reasons. And trying to get a man to talk about why he is is a bad mood just makes it worse, because men don't want to talk about their feelings. We don't want to talk about your feelings either, but most of the time we have no choice.
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Aren't you single?
This is excellent advice
I do like Audra's steak and a BJ suggestion thought. I'd be a moody dick, like all the time.
I am the same way. I don't really want to discuss what is bothering me until I know for sure what is bothering me. Sometimes that takes a little time to process. I especially don't want to talk about it when I am still pissed, because if I am continually hounded about "what's wrong" I will let go and tell whoever asks everything that has bothered me for the last week or longer.
Also B is really not a bad answer. People who are in a bad mood are not fun to talk to or even be around. Many of the above answers don't work so well when you're across the table from someone brooding.
Also A isn't entirely wrong because it sort of is about him. He didn't cause it but he is making it worse (by being concerned for you) and because you are upset enough by your bad mood spiral that you can't/won't tell him what happened. It doesn't matter that it is trivial or that it would take too much time to share the background; that's one of the great things about having a serious partner (though I don't wish to presume anything about your relationship) is they can pay attention to your life, remember details, learn about your coworkers, work situation, etc. You may find that just telling him, seeing that he remembers that that coworker is clueless, etc. may lift your spirits and help both of you have a better time.
I agree with (A), (B), and (C).
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lunch gossip always helps
Lunch blow job helps even more
Apparently the secret to meeting random super cute gentlemen is to walk down the street attempting to carry two large and unwieldy boxes. I had three dudes help me in the course of 20 minutes, and two phone number exchanges. Magic.
(Although one of them is almost certainly gay.)
I could be wrong, it was just a feeling. But I tend to err on the side of thinking people are straight, so generally when I get some sort of "feeling" that's the equivalent of a massive flaming flag for everyone else.
They may be on to something.
I was served by a one-armed waiter tonight. He was very cute.
Last edited by algunz; 06-08-2013 at 11:18 PM.
No, he was busy.
I imagine so if he could only carry one plate out at a time. I'm curious as to the way he took and wrote down your orders...
"Who is this doing this synthetic type of Alpha Beta psychedelic funkin'?"
What league are you in?
Womp, womp.DO NOT be rude or obnoxious to others. Some girls that are mean to others and bring them down are just to make themselves look or feel better, which in other peoples eyes, it doesn't. Guys like pleasant, nice girls.