i got your point. that some how fuller-figured people only find people attracted to them for their personality and are always good for a relationship. more slender people are constantly in a fog of not knowing whether people like them or not because pretty people are so deceitful. i've known plenty of bigger women who have attracted douchebags not interested in a real relationship and nowhere near a good friend. props to your friend for figuring out how to sift through the crap, but it has nothing to do with weight. she obviously has a brain and uses it.
maybe i'm not the best example, but i certainly don't get hit on as much as other people assume i do. just because some guy makes a comment about my tits does not mean i'm wondering if he wants a relationship. actually, a lot of the bigger women in my life get a lot more play.