Right, exactly. Homie, you better believe you're putting down at least six grand. Don't sweat it that much--you're getting married, you're going to be in debt up to your fucking ears. It comes with the territory. But it must be recommended strongly that you don't let something like the engagement ring--which is a big thing for chicks and comes right at the beginning of the whole "getting married" spiel--end up being a black mark on your record. Go over your head in debt to make the bitch happy here, it might buy you a little leeway down the road.