Is it really better to give than to receive?

[gaypalmsprings]

Now I'm curious as to who created the first blowjob... Like, did it happen in the dark by accident? Could it have been 2 guys bored as fuck, thinking they'd pass the time seeing how many different places you fit a wiener into? Perhaps during a date of heavy petting, just when the boy thought he'd get some ass, the girl decided she was starving and had to eat something first? Who knows?

I think this guy had something to do with it...

[Mugwog]

It was probably very similar to how dogs lick each other

[algunz]

i think people just like oral sex and the guys saying they like to give are just doing the usual bs to attract women on the internet for pm sex or have never had a good blow job, like really? you don't like pleasure? bullshit.

I kind of agree with you, but I have been with men who genuinely love it and want to give constantly. Almost to the point of annoyance. Sometimes you just want to be penetrated.

[Mugwog]

Oral sex past 30 minutes = time for fucking

[JustSteve]

30 minutes? jesus, i would have lockjaw by then.

[algunz]

If I can't come within 15, you're doing it very wrong.

[VigoTheCarpathian]

I think this guy had something to do with it...

Did you know him?

[VigoTheCarpathian]

Oh sorry I meant blow

[VigoTheCarpathian]

We do know that BD invented fisting

[Mugwog]

After 40 minutes of oral, the vagina is ready for a fist

[algunz]

It should be ready for anything at that point.

[VigoTheCarpathian]

It's really too bad you're married

[Mugwog]

^
this

[algunz]

My husband doesn't mind.

[Mugwog]

[guedita]

I kind of agree with you, but I have been with men who genuinely love it and want to give constantly. Almost to the point of annoyance. Sometimes you just want to be penetrated.

Yup.

[Pixiessp]

I so want to contribute but my reputation as a dainty gal will be destroyed.

[Mugwog]

Yup.

[greghead]

I'm a little skeptical of the idea proposed in this article that we are experiencing "the death of the blow job" -- I'd like to see how an anonymous poll measures up to the author's claims.

Without following your link, is that the article from Esquire? I found it interesting, but a little irritating. I had no idea that blowjobs were in trouble and I find the claims highly dubious.

EDIT: Yup. Same shit.

I think what's also important to note is that some people don't really enjoy others mouthing on their genitals. It's strange, I know, but there are those who would much, much rather bestow a fabululous cockgobbling/lick-out because they simply don't get the same enjoyment from receiving oral sex that a lot of us do. Naturally, quality is important. Some people are either bad or have terrible genitals. Can't help that shit.

Interesting issue, the article on cheating was kind of BS as well, I think.

[algunz]

Which is why I say, when both parties like to give, they'll both be getting exactly what they need.

Jim and I are givers, but I'll take every chance I get.

[Goatchella]

No I insist....after you

As a man, unless I am super turned on, after I cum, I am uninterested in sex and want a sandwich.

A woman it seems can have a small orgasm or very close to it and then continue onto intercourse or more foreplay.
If we start off with you blowing me, and I cum, it's over. This is bad IMO. I want it to last until I fall asleep.
I like to mix it up of course, but my favorite is sexy clothes, make out and strip, a little sucky for me, oral for her until she can't take it anymore and insists on fucking.

This ^ is what happens on a great night for the goat.

In my dreams, I would eat pussy until She gushed all over my face and pulled my hair, then we would share a passionate kiss where I would smear said juices all over her face.




In reality, we both suck or lick till things are wet, I stab at it slow and tease, the hitatchi comes out and I orgasm the instant she does.



The magic wand runs the show and nothing I will ever do will beat what that fucker can do. I'm not insecure or jealous. That thing is a beast and deserves all the hype.

[hippiephonics]

invest in a real vibe

[Goatchella]

The only thing more real than a hitatchi is a jack hammer clown.

Are you serious??

[hippiephonics]

yeah, if youre a middle aged woman in a getting to know your body class

[hippiephonics]

its a pretty safe bet that anything you can buy in walgreens isnt at the top of the ladder of sexual devices

[Goatchella]

Pretty safe bet you have zero experience with pussy or anything related. Please die and vanish

[JustSteve]

if you are what you eat, then dammit i am a pussy.

[greghead]

As a man, unless I am super turned on, after I cum, I am uninterested in sex and want a sandwich.

This is weird to me. I'm not entirely satisfied until get off twice. Boning, oral, titty cumshot, whatever. Who doesn't like going twice? Even after that the flesh is still willing, but 3+ in a session is slipping away as I enter my third decade on the planet.

[TomAz]

Yeah, you just wait.

[Goatchella]

Once in awhile I will go twice. I have better things to do though.
This is not a reflection on my performance or any partners I've had. I feel like I just need to bust a nut and then I can continue with my life. Making love and being intimate is a different story. I take my time when it's romantic and love making.

I have said before though...sex is not the most important thing to me. It's just something you do, like flossing or taking a shower. Interesting info Greg. I have always had a tough time finding a woman that can keep up with my sexual needs. Multiple times a day though, not multiple times a session. Seems most women I have met that can keep up are complete whores and if I'm not available when they need it, they will find someone else to fill the void.

I'm nearly 30 years old and have only slept with about 15 partners. I am not promiscuous, I don't have fuck buddies or sleep with randoms. I'm a horny goat but I could never say that I always go twice. That would def make the times I do go twice seem less enjoyable.

So on a good night your hitting it three or four times? Wtf? I'm not talking about a few minutes break and another session.


Can your cock stay hard for two orgasms without starting back up or taking a break? I'm questioning my whole life right now lol. My cock is raw after one session. Sweaty and stomach cramps, breathing heavy ect......I have stamina for days....how is this possible every time?????