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    My 3 year break up was what brought me into this thread. Its been 7 months since my break up and the only advice I have for you...time. Out of all of the advice/help/suggestions people gave me, time was the only thing that turned out to be the most true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by locachica73 View Post
    I would, but I just prefer keeping those worlds seperate. I already lost connection with a guy I had been interested in because I got drunk and took my ex to the bar I know him from. Guys don't seem to be cool with girls playing the field, at least the guys who are in my age range. So even though it's an unspoken rule that we can and are spending time with other people, I find it best to try to keep people from meeting each other.
    In than case, you need to ask yourself if you really want to be hanging out with insecure guys who can't handle a clear intention. I'll always have more respect towards a woman who told me straight-up that they weren't looking for anything other than someone to hang with, or whatever.


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    Quote Originally Posted by locachica73 View Post
    I already lost connection with a guy I had been interested in because I got drunk and took my ex to the bar I know him from. Guys don't seem to be cool with girls playing the field, at least the guys who are in my age range.
    These types of guys are not worth the time of day.

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    In than case, you need to ask yourself if you really want to be hanging out with insecure guys who can't handle a clear intention.
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    I agree.. you are the prize here Audra. You have multiple men to date and you shouldn't have to hide it unless someone wants to step up to the plate and ask you for more than that.
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    I consider myself a pretty easy going person, but if the guy I was screwing took me to a place where I had to sit at the same table with the other chick he was screwing, I don't know that I would be ok with it. It's one thing knowing that person exists, it's another thing to be hanging out with them together. I think it's more about common curtesy than maturity.
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    I also don't see why if you had prior plans to go to this place you don't just keep them. It's not like you all made a plan to hang out together. Why would you rearrange your schedule because someone else unrelatedly decided to go the same place?
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    Point taken - I can see the level of comfort you would have with the situation depends on what point of dating/seeing each other/sleeping together you are at with each of them.
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    No thanks, that is just way too many parts to concentrate on at the same time.
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    I'm with bmack!
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    Quote Originally Posted by locachica73 View Post
    I consider myself a pretty easy going person, but if the guy I was screwing took me to a place where I had to sit at the same table with the other chick he was screwing, I don't know that I would be ok with it. It's one thing knowing that person exists, it's another thing to be hanging out with them together. I think it's more about common curtesy than maturity.
    If the dude leaves with you at the end of the night, i don't see why any of that would even matter. Unless, someone is just trying to play some games with you. Or..more than casual feelings are being tossed around.


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    You people are fucking retarded. Of course you don't take him to that bar, Audra.

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    Thanks Randy, although I don't really know how to live in a world where yours is the voice of reason. Say something crazy so everything can balance out.
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    Honestly, I'm not sure I can live in it either.
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    Why do you keep switching between aliases?
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    RSW got stuck in the mobile view when I was playing around with it on my laptop. There's no way to undo it once you're in that view yet, and it lacks a few features. So I'm back to TLGM until the dev team resolves it.
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    You're virtually stuck?

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    This page is disgusting. Someone should burn it before it infects the good people of the board. Not saying I'm one of them, but someone has to look out for their interests.

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    What would prompt a girl in the early stages of a relationship to say 'I really like you, so if you ever feel you want to "downgrade" and have an open relationship I wouldn't be happy but would be ok with it?'

    Insecurity or the want for an open relationship?

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    Both.
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    Well, my anger issues might be ruining my relationship.

    Boyfriend told me that he cannot deal with my outbursts anymore. I get angry or frustrated about something/anything unrelated to him, and I lash out and attack him/his insecurities as a way to "Get the anger out." I know that it's happening as it's happening, and I can't stop it. It's gotten bad in the last month; I've been stressed with school and work and got put on Xanax by my doctor for anxiety. Boyfriend says he will break up with me if I do this again. I don't like ultimatums, but...I think I've fucked up a good thing simply because I can't stop myself from being so sad and angry all the time.

    You all might want to clear a space on the loser couch in this thread for me. I have a feeling I'll be back here soon.

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    OH GOD SOMEONE PLEASE GET IN TOUCH WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND BRIBE HIM TO STAY WITH HER. I CANNOT TAKE ANOTHER SINGLE KAT ATTACK.
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    At least you have Xanax...

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    So my friends and I were having a debate about first dates - is it too harsh to decide, after just one date, that you never want to date that person again?

    My stance (the perpetually-single): if there's absolutely no chemistry, and you come away from the date feeling completely neutral about the other person, why prolong it?
    My friend's stance (the serial monogamist): people take awhile to warm up, and not everyone is themselves on a first date. Give them a chance for their true personality to show through, and you might be surprised.

    She's just given me a challenge to help me get over commitment issues...whoever I go out on a date with next, I HAVE to go on at least 2 other dates with them, and I can't date anyone else in the meantime. This should be interesting.
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    You're not required to post in this thread and/or read anything I post, Randy.

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    Kat, what do you get so angry about and what kind of things do you say to him?
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitt kat View Post
    Well, my anger issues might be ruining my relationship.

    Boyfriend told me that he cannot deal with my outbursts anymore. I get angry or frustrated about something/anything unrelated to him, and I lash out and attack him/his insecurities as a way to "Get the anger out." I know that it's happening as it's happening, and I can't stop it. It's gotten bad in the last month; I've been stressed with school and work and got put on Xanax by my doctor for anxiety. Boyfriend says he will break up with me if I do this again. I don't like ultimatums, but...I think I've fucked up a good thing simply because I can't stop myself from being so sad and angry all the time.

    You all might want to clear a space on the loser couch in this thread for me. I have a feeling I'll be back here soon.
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    I haven't been on a "date" since Feb 28th
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