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    2nd date tonight. no cleavage, but i'm looking like a badass and modern joan from mad men in a black tahari wiggle dress & boots since i'm coming from work. my only fear is that he paid for dinner last time and might expect me to this time. while normally i would, i'm only recently back at work and haven't had a full paycheck yet. i also have a shitload of pie supplies to buy tonight for thanksgiving. i don't want to bring this up, but what's a good way to subtly let him know i'm a broke-ass who wants to go dutch? i'm just afraid to say something and have him think i'm horrible with money or something. not that i'm great, but i don't want to give that impression.
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    Why would you expect him not to pay for dinner in the first place?
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    because he paid last time. i almost never let a guy pay for a first date unless i like him. i don't like feeling indebted to someone.
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    i'm looking like a badass and modern joan from mad men in a black tahari wiggle dress & boots since i'm coming from work. .

    DroooooooL
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    Cleve.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chairmenmeow47 View Post
    because he paid last time. i almost never let a guy pay for a first date unless i like him. i don't like feeling indebted to someone.
    Did you ask him on this date or did he ask you? If he asked you I would think he'd be paying for it.

    Plus if he already paid for one, and then you want to split on this one, he might think you've lost interest and you're writing him off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miscorrections View Post
    Did you ask him on this date or did he ask you? If he asked you I would think he'd be paying for it.
    he asked, so you're probably right.
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    Just make him think you'll suck his dick throughout dinner and he won't think twice about paying for it.
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    order carrots
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    Just slowly start unbuttoning your top when the bill comes and see what happens.

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    no buttons i'm going to order something small. i don't know why the idea of people paying for stuff makes me so uncomfortable, but it does.
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    wear a blindfold when the bill comes then
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    Dump your drink all over your shirt when the bill comes and then take it off in a fake panic, showing him your bra, and then pull it back down, realizing you're in a public place. Then excuse yourself in a hurry to the bathroom.

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    Do guys really think you're not interested if you offer to pay or ask to pay? I always offer to go dutch or to alternate who pays. I think I make a lot more than most of the guys I've gone out with though, so it feels rude to expect them to pay for everything.

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    I think if it's a second date, maybe...although I'm with you, I always split unless I unreservedly like the person in question.
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    guys don't think i'm not interested until i let them know via text that i'm not interested the next time they text me. i just don't want a guy to have any reason to be a dick about it. because let's face it, my picker is about as good as audra's. if i know they make a lot more money than me (which is like 2 guys in my entire life), then i don't worry about it as much.

    but since it's my "turn", i feel a bit lame not buying. NEXT TIME.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chiapet View Post
    Do guys really think you're not interested if you offer to pay or ask to pay? I always offer to go dutch or to alternate who pays. I think I make a lot more than most of the guys I've gone out with though, so it feels rude to expect them to pay for everything.
    I think it's more of an ego thing then anything else to be honest. I think most people are able to tell if a person is interested or not prior before the bill coming. A guy who just had a fantastic date with a woman isn't all of suddenly going to be put off because she wants to pay.
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    i think the Navy went out on the high seas and buried audra's picker at an undisclosed location
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    I used to always split dating stuff 50/50, but increasingly I let the guy pay for everything. I've come to terms with the fact that although I may be all about equality when it comes education and careers and whatnot, in the dating arena I do enjoy more traditional gender roles and expectations. And it's not about the money -- it's about letting the guy take the lead and be aggressive in the dating process. Because there's nothing sexy about wishy-washy.

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    face,BOOK..

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    I guess im weird if a girl pays for herself Im like "Hallluajah!!!! This chick actually can afford stuff"
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    Quote Originally Posted by getbetter View Post
    I guess im weird if a girl pays for herself Im like "Hallluajah!!!! This chick actually can afford stuff"
    This is my mindset after the first couple dates.
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    I've been doing it all wrong then. I go dutch usually. Oh well...

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    Quote Originally Posted by chiapet View Post
    I've been doing it all wrong then. I go dutch usually. Oh well...
    You probably shouldn't do what I do, given that I have had a new relationship pretty much every two years like clockwork since 2001. Maybe we should all be taking advice from happily married folks.

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    he got off work early and is getting there before me. i told him to find a booth in the bar so we can take advantage of happy hour. frugalness implied.
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    Did you let him know how much you like chicken wings?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtney View Post
    You probably shouldn't do what I do, given that I have had a new relationship pretty much every two years like clockwork since 2001. Maybe we should all be taking advice from happily married folks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtney View Post
    I used to always split dating stuff 50/50, but increasingly I let the guy pay for everything. I've come to terms with the fact that although I may be all about equality when it comes education and careers and whatnot, in the dating arena I do enjoy more traditional gender roles and expectations. And it's not about the money -- it's about letting the guy take the lead and be aggressive in the dating process. Because there's nothing sexy about wishy-washy.
    Hmm, can we aggressively take the lead and not pay? "Say, you wanna get out of here? Great. Walk that cute butt of your's up to the register and get the bill settled, I'll get the car."

    How are my odds looking at that point?
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    "Do you wanna split this, or am I gonna be better off taking care of the whole thing?"

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