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    For what it's worth, I was never under any delusion that these youngins were looking for love from someone old enough to be their mother. I am fully aware of what they were looking for.

    Ivy, I think if it's an aquantance it's pretty much fair game. But if it's someone who is in your close circle of friends it is always best to ask. Although I have a firm rule against it even if the other girl is ok with it. It has the opportunity to become drama, I try to avoid drama whenever possible. It comes up easily enough on it's own, I don't like to invite it in. Not that I haven't on occasion broken my own rules due to drunken stupidness, but I really do try to stick to the rules I have set for myself.
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    i think i realized why moving-to-ny guy might not have made a move. i knew he used to date a girl in my circle of friends over five years ago. me and the girl are friendly, but i really am not a big fan of hers. one of her closer friends asked her if she could date this guy before and the girl said no. so maybe he's afraid to date her "friends". he may just not have been interested too, but if that's the case i'm a little pissed. this girl recently hooked up with an ex boyfriend of mein without asking me (and i don't care). so i hope that's not the case.

    this raises a question though. how close of a friend does one have to be to either ask permission to date an ex, or how much time has to pass? does the breakup situation make a difference (who broke up with whom or reason for breakup)?
    If it's a friend that is close enough to you that it's possible to run into them at a function with mutual friends, you should at least pose the question to them. I'd say giving the person a heads up, finding out how they feel about it, and also asking their opinion about the person you intend to date, is a good way to determine if you should go forward.
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    If it's a good friend do you really want to be dating someone they already dated? I mean, you get to hear about all the things that didn't work/went wrong...If it's not a good friend I would inform them but not ask permission.
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    For what it's worth, I was never under any delusion that these youngins were looking for love from someone old enough to be their mother. I am fully aware of what they were looking for.
    I always liked you, locachica, and I'm glad that you have averted any possibility of me changing that opinion. The above answer is exactly what I was getting at.

    I have been out of the dating scene for over 3 years, as I've been in a committed relationship and now have a child, but when I was last single, I will admit that I did mess around with some girls that were substantially younger than me. However, I never wanted a relationship with any of those girls, and I made that clear to them from the start. They liked me because I was older/more mature/smarter than all of the young punks they usually dated. However, I knew if we attempted a relationship, the age difference would take its toll, and it really would have no realistic future. Even a "mature" 25 year old is almost always in a different place in life than a 40 year old, and it will greatly affect any relationship once the initial luster wears off.

    My girlfriend is 2 years younger than me. My previous girlfriend was 9 months younger than me. The one before that was 2 years younger, and the one before that was also 2 years younger. I think it's best that way.
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    On the other topic, don't ever date any exes of your close friends. Never. It's disrespectful, and it will probably ruin the friendship.

    As far as casual friends go, I would say a waiting period of a few months is in order, at least to demonstrate that you didn't "steal" their last boyfriend/girlfriend.

    I have never dated any friends' exes, and never would.

    I do remember when I was 17 that one of my good friends secretly started dating my ex shortly after we broke up, and it really pissed me off. There was no cheating or girlfriend-stealing going on, but it still pissed me off.
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    i don't think anything will happen with the guy, so it doesn't really matter. the girl and i hang out with others, but never alone. i never knew them as a couple. and like i said, she slept with my ex recently. i actuallt don't like this girl, but kinda have to be friendly because of our group of friends.

    anyway, i agree with others. it's bad news if it's with a close friends' ex. i just think with facebook and partying it gets a little incestuous and that's hard to avoid.
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    this raises a question though. how close of a friend does one have to be to either ask permission to date an ex, or how much time has to pass? does the breakup situation make a difference (who broke up with whom or reason for breakup)?
    They would have be either a really close friend that u have known for years or a friend that you get a long with really well to prevent me from trying to dick down or in speical case seek a relationship.This one girl dated a friend of mine but always made it apparent that she liked me.Well they broke up and we hanging a lot semi shortly after .My friend was trying his best to cock block or get a mutural friend tk basically cock me .I used have house parties two to three times a week and this girl went to sleep on my bed while I was busy drinkin and "partying".The ex bf went to my room and lay by her. I was like fuck this guy Im not getting cock block tonight.I went in my room and turn on my lights told him I know your not sleeping and get off my bed.So he got my bed and laid on the floor while I layed in my bed hooking with that chick.Basically Im saying dont let shitty friends stand in the way of good dick down.

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    For what it's worth, I was never under any delusion that these youngins were looking for love from someone old enough to be their mother. I am fully aware of what they were looking for.

    Ivy, I think if it's an aquantance it's pretty much fair game. But if it's someone who is in your close circle of friends it is always best to ask. Although I have a firm rule against it even if the other girl is ok with it. It has the opportunity to become drama, I try to avoid drama whenever possible. It comes up easily enough on it's own, I don't like to invite it in. Not that I haven't on occasion broken my own rules due to drunken stupidness, but I really do try to stick to the rules I have set for myself.
    Yeah, which is why I kept my mouth shut for the most part, you dont strike me as dense. It was just refreshing to see Archie's comment, it seemed everyone was beating around the bush until he piped in.
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    It's a harmless delusion to have.
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    I finally got some last night. There was no post sex cuddling and he didn't spend the night. Win.
    However, he left without making me a sandwich, even though I demanded one.

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    NICE! I got some too, I realized if I drink half a bottle of wine the 28 year old becomes much better at conversation... or I care less. Either way, whoot!
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    OMG.. do you know how orgasmic it would be to combine the sandwich and the wine ?!!?!?
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    Is anyone here friends with an ex? Does that ex ever hint at messing around even though you both have boyfriends? And how do you subtley (or not so subtley) tell them that it's nice to feel wanted, but it's never going to happen? I'm asking for a friend.
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    I'd just say i don't fuck around when in a relationship and be cold about it or they won't get it.Also Yes I'm friends with one of my ex's and that scenerio has happen to me.She is really hot too she does nude modeling.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JorgeC View Post
    Is anyone here friends with an ex? Does that ex ever hint at messing around even though you both have boyfriends? And how do you subtley (or not so subtley) tell them that it's nice to feel wanted, but it's never going to happen? I'm asking for a friend.
    yes i am friends with ex's. the way i look at it, try to respond in a way that you wouldn't mind your boyfriend/girlfriend observing if they were around. that to me doesn't mean getting rude, but rather being clear about boundaries or changing the subject. sometimes making a joke helps relieve the tension. if it continues or becomes bothersome, your ex probably isn't really interested in being a friend.


    and i'm starting to feel frisky. i need a date! robin style!
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    I finally got some last night. There was no post sex cuddling and he didn't spend the night. Win.
    However, he left without making me a sandwich, even though I demanded one.
    Did he think you were kidding? I find it best to demand that they make the sandwich before boning down so that it's there waiting for you in the fridge post coitus.

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    I still talk to my exes and one of them definitely throws the vibe out there, but she messed it up when we were seeing one another. Just gotta cut that person out or have them see you with your new girl/guy. Don't mess around when you got someone worth holding on to.

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    have her make you a sandwich before you cut her out muggy
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    Did he think you were kidding? I find it best to demand that they make the sandwich before boning down so that it's there waiting for you in the fridge post coitus.
    He probably did think I was joking. I will take your advice if there's a next time with this dude. But having it pre-made just doesn't have the same effect as having him make it post-sex. I guess a sandwich is better than no sandwich.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guedita View Post
    Did he think you were kidding? I find it best to demand that they make the sandwich before boning down so that it's there waiting for you in the fridge post coitus.
    in that case, why wait to eat when you can multi-task?

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    have her make you a sandwich before you cut her out muggy
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    I brought a groupon deal to MY FAVORITE SUB place ever Capriotti's yesterday .I guess I need to wait on using that.
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    I haven't gotten any in probably two years.


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    I haven't gotten any in probably two years.

    How frequent do you approach women that you find pulchritudinous?

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    To be fair I'm pretty picky about women and I don't have much game. I'm hoping to maybe meet someone once I get back into online dating but I know how fickle that is from personal experience and reading here. Oh well, I'm not really feeling bad about it. I'm pretty happy with my life right now thankfully.

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    If you're content with the situation of life, that's good. Although if you're feeling a little sad from sex drought, you should hang out at places you enjoy, I found that much better than online dating. Online feels like too much of an application before you meet a person, fuck that, if you like what you see in public place, investigate further!

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    Online dating is nasty fuck that! .Go out and do things you like to do .Lose your pride and just go talk to these women you so picky about.Rejection is just part of it and as long as you realize it your going end up finding someone decent.


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