Boyfriend seems to have a lot of girl friends (platonic, he says) that faun over him. It's kind of pissing me off, and some of the attention they give him is kinda inappropriate.
I know I've had problems with "other girls" in the past...so I'm trying not to think about this, but it is really, really bothering me.
They talk to him in baby talk, post things on his wall calling him "honey" and "baby"...and now today he stayed home from work to go swimming with his (female) neighbor who is one of the culprits.
I dunno, it strikes me as a little odd.
They were around long before you, so you either deal with it or end it.
What is odd about a guy having close female friends? That should be a good sign.
Last edited by JustSteve; 08-29-2012 at 04:08 PM.
I don't call my platonic dude friends honey or baby...
Well if he's banging all these chicks your going find out eventually..I personally only call days off work if im getting some play, attending a music festival , traveling or family stuff.I will to work sick or even drunk from night before to save my sick days.
Last edited by getbetter; 08-29-2012 at 04:19 PM.
So what about the other two?
Two are his neighbors, two are friends from high school (that live in LA) and the other I don't know. The neighbors are 30/31.
Some of my male friends call me honey or baby and I've never touched their dicks.
Your boyfriend likes the extra attention & flirting, though he'll swear up and down that he doesn't know what you're talking about.
Crackers don't play that way.
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I can think of three male friends and one female friend who call me things like "gorgeous," "lovely," "dear," "cutie," and "sweet pea," and shockingly I'm not sleeping with any of them.
I think baby names alone would be innoccuous but she mentioned other overt behaviors she found inappropriate. I'm not saying they're fucking, but there is certainly a flirty emotional thing going on that he enjoys and certainly doesn't stop. That, for me, is cause enough to stop and take a second look at the nature of the friendship.