"hahahahahaha bro, that shit must be freaking her the fuck out! ROFLMAO"
I want nothing to do with supperficial and otherwise vapid women.
I dont want to goto their parties any more. Sing happy birthday. Pretend I like them. I dont care how sexy any of them might be.
I'm over the dating scene, party scene and single life all together.
I want only to surround myself with family, friends and coworkers who are down to earth and who at least sense that there is a deeper and more sincere life at hand and actively try and work at it.
My friend got the following message from some creeper on OK Cupid:
You're so pretty. You look just like Nicole Brown Simpson.
So I jumped on the Tinder bandwagon. Already 400% more successful than OKC. (But I only did OKC for like two weeks at most before I hated it.) To whoever said that there's more down to earth girls- well yeah, in my also very limited experience, I've met some pretty cool guys that I felt were really fun and grounded. Granted, they are either from out of town just visiting for work or very recent transplants. I am using it strictly for new adventure friends and perhaps fwb, but definitely not looking for a soul mate through a fucking phone app.
Can't wait for my date tonight!
I have a coffee meets bagel date tonight, a tinder date tuesday, a coffee meets bagel date thursday, and a tinder date friday. I have a couple tinder dates at FYF too.
Sounds like a lot of bagels.
Should call it hot dog meets bagel IMO
It is another dating site that is far superior to okcupid
9/12: Shifted @ Mercer
9/24 - 28: Decibel Festival
10/3-5: Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival
10/4: Ought @ BoH
10/5: The War on Drugs, Cass McCombs @ The Fillmore
10/18-19: Treasure Island Music Festival
That's what I thought too until I started using the app. None of these girls are interested in just sex, or at least none of the ones I match with. Tis a shame.
I went on a date Monday that I think is probably how it felt to be on a date with me a year ago. This girl seemed extremely uncomfortable and standoffish, had her arms crossed the whole time from the very beginning, and was a bad conversationalist. I was surprised when I asked "do you want to leave?" about an hour in that she wanted to stay longer, but I did end up calling it a night like five minutes after that. It was like pulling teeth.
Maybe you are too sexed up now?
not only was paying for match a complete dating fail for me, but apparently it's a financial fail too because they renew subscriptions automatically and i wasn't aware. i didn't think i could feel any stupider for giving match a shot, but here we are. the one date i had was so not worth this.
We'll, you've got a whole months worth of chances now.
(I hope you've already called and canceled.)
their phone system has been down all day. i went on their website, found a chat option, pulled the "i just got out of the hospital" card (which is technically true), and they are issuing a refund. thank god. never again.
how long does a "coffee date" usually last? Asking for a friend.
Boy has the world changed
I think coffee dates are a nice change though. Being on a lunch or dinner date can really suck if you know within the first 10 minutes that there is no connection, but you still have sit and eat with the person.
I went out with some girlfriends to watch football on Sunday. Some guy sat next to me and tried to flirt, it was all very cute, he even ordered a mimosa (yum)... Then he introduced himself "hi, my name is ________ but everyone calls me hot sauce". I couldn't take anything he said seriously after that. If you are over 21, you need to stop going by your high school/college nickname.
Agreed. Especially if it's a Tinder/Match/OkC thing then dinner dates are not a great plan if there is no spark.
My new strategy is the afternoon park date with a bottle of wine. Easy escape, cheap, good people watching etc
9/27 - Simian Mobile Disco - Mezzanine
10/2 - Elton John - SAP Center
10/3-10/5 - Hardly Strictly Bluegrass - GGP
10/4 - DJ Shadow + Cut Chemist - Mezzanine
10/6 - Kasabian + Bo Ningen - Fox
10/21 - Melvins + Le Butcherettes - GAMH
11/1 - Hard Day of the Dead - Fairplex
4/17-4/19 - Coachella weekend 2
I had 8 first dates in August, they were all cheap or free, and they were all boring.
I had one tinder date that was really a blast the month before, and we both agreed there was a spark, but she moved a week later. Kinda weird that she went out with me at all but it was fun so I'm not complaining.