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    that is true. i also want to be clear that i want to take time to get to know someone first i guess. this all feels kinda awkward to discuss. but i guess i have never felt like i had choices with dating. more like "wow, this person actually wants to spend time with me! lock that shit down!"
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    You are so adorable that I think if you are just honest and write what you really want on your profile you will have loads of great responses. Good luck!!!
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    You're a dick, Randy.

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    Been lurking of late, couldn't help but mention the blatantly obvious: Vigo has a new alias? Packer?

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    Yes.

    A few weeks ago in tinychat -- and now fuck, I can't remember who was in there with me, Vigo asked if we wanted to pull a prank on the message board. What's the prank, I asked, thinking he had at the very least a skeletal outline of something 'funny' that could rival the hilarious prank he and birdie pulled about him getting punched in the nose. Nope. He wanted me to come up with the prank.

    (I'm still working on what it might be).

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    first message is in all caps from a guy with bad facial hair talking about no drama. already regretting my decision.
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    what kind of facial hair are we talking about here? GOATEE? BAD STACHE?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chairmenmeow47 View Post
    first message is in all caps from a guy with bad facial hair talking about no drama. already regretting my decision.
    It seems like women on dating sites have to put up with an inordnate amount of stupidity. This girl I am talking to right now mentions her name five times in her profile and writes "you should message me if you remember my name". I think one of the reasons she's responded to me is that I am one of the elite few who remembered her name (or read her profile in the first place)

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    A close friend lists herself as bi, and gets the "wanna have a threesome?" message at least twice a day. Just that and nothing more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IceyHotshot View Post
    Try to be genuine and be honest with what you want.
    Hows that worked out for you on platforms other than Tinder?

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    Quote Originally Posted by superfan View Post
    Hows that worked out for you on platforms other than Tinder?
    Well.

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    Yes.

    A few weeks ago in tinychat -- and now fuck, I can't remember who was in there with me
    It was you, me Vigo and one other, Patrick maybe?
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    hey. get your own colonoscopy thread, bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by algunz View Post
    You're a dick, Randy.
    I'm just saying, if that's not already a site, it should be.
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    over one hundred various responses, but only one person seems interesting and he is "not sure" about kids. i feel like i wasted my money.

    and bad facial hair was a goatee.
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    Good luck Ivy! Don't make dating sites your only option. Go out and have fun.. Hopefully you'll meet a friend of a friend that's perfect for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chairmenmeow47 View Post
    over one hundred various responses, but only one person seems interesting and he is "not sure" about kids. i feel like i wasted my money.

    and bad facial hair was a goatee.
    I had good luck with eHarmony...that is where Alicia and I met.

    I did a trial of match.com prior to joining eHarmony, but didn't think it did a good job of finding the best matches.

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    It was you, me Vigo and one other, Patrick maybe?
    It was me. Have you come up with a plan, Gue?

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    This is amazing.
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    To you guys I say Wat?????????? Off to ?????? ....... cr****
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    It's hard to argue with that.

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    I'd like the board's general concensus please.
    My ex and I are still in constant communication because were sharing our dog. We still have friends in the same circles, and while it's easier to deal with the dog stuff when things are amiable, I don't consider him my friend. We're polite and cordial when we see each other at a gathering for example, but I can't say "friends" in a true sense. And were both seeing other people, and trying to move on in our own way. But getting distance from him in my life has been difficult.

    He asked me yesterday if I would remain his "in case of emergency" person in his phone and at work since he has no family here and I know his mom in Australia, and know who all his different friends are that would need to be notified if something happened to him. There was a part of me that hesitated because I don't want my life any further tangled with him than it already is, but I caved and said fine thinking it wasn't really any harm, even though it makes me feel like it's just another thing that ties us together.

    Did I do the wrong thing by allowing him to continue relying on me? Or is this just a harmless request?
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    hey. get your own colonoscopy thread, bitch.

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    I don't think this is a significant escalation, especially if you are going to continue sharing a dog. Because as long as you share that dog you are never going to get much distance.

    This acknowledges a history but it's not like he's going to introduce you around/show you off as "my emergency contact". It's an impersonal form that hopefully will not ever matter.

    If you are both on Facebook I would want to be friends with him but have my default settings so he can't see my posts and unfollow him so I don't see his posts. Thus you have as much distance as possible but if the worst would happen you have a way of investigating his life, seeing if he was still in contact with the friends you know. Alternatively you could have him send a one-time email of contact information that you mark read without reading and file it away.
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    I removed him from my Facebook altogether when we first split up, but we do text and call regarding the dog. But I'm still Facebook friends with his mother. It's true if we didn't have the dog it would be far easier to maintain distance. But even still we bump into each other with friends or in our neighborhood. I guess it's not a big deal, but it's just another thing that keeps us connected.
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    It's all riding on this. You've got big dreams to ride to the top of the Flash Mob world. Well internet fame costs. And right now is when you start paying for it...in sweat.
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    hey. get your own colonoscopy thread, bitch.

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    I'm not sure about the emergency contact thing. I guess you would have to decide for yourself if you want to be involved if something bad happens to him. My ex-husband did not want to be my contact even while we were still married (but separated), and we share children. I switched it up to be my brother.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amyzzz View Post
    I guess you would have to decide for yourself if you want to be involved if something bad happens to him.
    This is partly my concern, as I feel I'd still be the only one in his life that would take on responsibility for helping him out if something happened, or having to manage his personal affairs if he was somehow incapacitated, since his mother is on the other side of the world. To some extent it opens up a bit of a can of worms.
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    It's all riding on this. You've got big dreams to ride to the top of the Flash Mob world. Well internet fame costs. And right now is when you start paying for it...in sweat.
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    hey. get your own colonoscopy thread, bitch.

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    Tell him you'll do it if he lets you write his will. Case closed.

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    HAHAHA...yeah, he wouldn't even put me in his will when we were together. I'm going to think about it a bit more but it's possible I may tell him I'm not comfortable.
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    hey. get your own colonoscopy thread, bitch.

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    This is probably bad advice, but i'm a pushover and always say yes to people. Tell him okay for now but that you'd like to revisit in 6 months or a year. He wants to keep you because it's the most convenient (you know everyone), but it is a very uncomfortable situation, so hopefully you can give him suggestions on other mutual friends that could fill in. I'd also revisit the situation as soon as you hear that he's a little more serious with his new SO, tell him it's time for her to take on that responsibility.
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    Yes, I thought about that as well. He is dating someone he has been friends with a while, kind of like me. So maybe over time it will be easier to transition the responsibility to another person in his life.
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    As long as this is just a transitional time, maybe it won't be a bad idea, for now, and you can bring this up again later if his relationship progresses to a more serious thing.

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    so i had a date with a lawyer i met on match. he is cute and we had good conversation. we went for coffee/tea. he doesn't drink. we both just joined the site. not sure this will go anywhere because of the no drinking thing and his "not sure" response to kids, but it is nice to be moving my life forward again!
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