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    She doesn't know what she's doing with her life in the present, because in the past she entered into a marital union with someone she wasn't really into. Okay.

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    I'm not too great at the open-minded/non-judgemental thing, so yeaaaaah. Here's to becoming an asshole hermit.

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    I feel like we've met you before.

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    It's Icey's doppelgänger

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    I was gonna say. Icey, this is your fate, if you don't take control of your own destiny.

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    No, not like "you remind me of another, different boardie." Something much more...sinister.

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    I forgot how everyone nitpicks every word here and extrapolates the worst intentions imaginable. I just meant that some divorcees are emotionally unavailable and no matter what you do for them they don't really see the intentions behind the actions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by guedita View Post
    No, not like "you remind me of another, different boardie." Something much more...sinister.
    Our own schadenfreude, perhaps.

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    Shaddup Vigo.

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    I am absolutely emotionally available. I'll dump a whole shit ton of emotion all over you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoSetsfire View Post
    I just meant that some divorcees are emotionally unavailable and no matter what you do for them they don't really see the intentions behind the actions.
    So divorcees are just like other people. Got it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MoSetsfire View Post
    I forgot how everyone nitpicks every word here and extrapolates the worst intentions imaginable.
    that's part of the fun. Helps weeds out the unstable, most of them anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoSetsfire View Post
    I forgot how everyone nitpicks every word here and extrapolates the worst intentions imaginable. I just meant that some divorcees are emotionally unavailable and no matter what you do for them they don't really see the intentions behind the actions.
    what you call "nitpicking" and "extrapolation" others view as "challenging superficial facile prejudices poorly hidden in common attitudes and language".

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    I came out of my marriage EXTREEEMELY horny. Jus sayin.
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    what you call "nitpicking" and "extrapolation" others view as "challenging superficial facile prejudices poorly hidden in common attitudes and language".
    Touche
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    Wait. You like Cudi but you think Outkast is a one hit wonder.

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    Amy, you're on a roll today.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TomAz View Post
    Icey have you finally slammed your manmeat into some juicy tang, or are you still yankin and dreamin?
    Tom using the words manmeat and juicy tang is awesome...

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    I am absolutely emotionally available. I'll dump a whole shit ton of emotion all over you.
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    Amy, you're on a roll today.
    She wishes she was.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amyzzz View Post
    I came out of my marriage EXTREEEMELY horny. Jus sayin.
    This has been my experience with dating a recent divorcee. She's also fifteen years older than me too though so that might have something to do with it as well. On that note, what are people's experiences with dating somebody who is clearly in a higher income bracket than you? Give me the dirt.
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    Should it matter that she makes a lot more money? It doesn't change how you date, or at least it shouldn't IMO. I've dated guys that make considerably less than me but we still go Dutch or take turns paying for dinners out and such.
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    No it hasn't, not really, she did make a point to say that she has a habit to try and pay for everything on dates. We normally treat the other intermittently but she has definitely spent more throughout the dates. I really don't even feel bad, I just don't want to build any resentment.
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    The best thing to do is keep it equal, even if she feels obligated to pay more often. I often have to push to pay equally because the guy feels it's his gentlemanly duty to pay, but fuck that shit. We all make money and can pay our own way. I don't need to have a guy cover my tab just because he's the guy.

    side note -women in their 40s are crazy horny sex maniacs.
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    i dont see why it cant be proportionate to income. if someone makes 75% more they could pay 75% more of/on dates (if both parties are comfortable with that)..if they chose to go to more pricey places for example.
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    Hmm that's where I think it gets tricky. I make more money, but my expenses with living alone and supporting a house on my own are way higher. I have less spending cash at my disposal. My date has almost no mortgage and shares a house with his brother. We don't go to pricey places, in fact we prefer dodgy cheap hole in the wall spots. For us going dutch works but every couple is different, provided resentments don't surface like what frizzle alluded to.
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    well right so in that case it wouldnt apply. . im on board for 50/50 and have often been the bread winner in my past relationships, but ended up probably paying more often because i knew i could afford it. i even have issues letting the guy pay in full but am TRYING to get over that. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    The best thing to do is keep it equal, even if she feels obligated to pay more often.
    I think it's reasonable to aim for roughly equal but keeping a running tally (not that you mean it that strongly, ThatGirl) to me isn't fun or sexy. Being over-concerned with who's paying what makes it all about money, exacerbates any issues by keeping them in the forefront.

    It doesn't sound like you're being unconcerned or taking advantage of her so I see no issue. You're paying sometimes, and I'm assuming she's not complaining. She's choosing to date you and if she wants to spend money on having a good time she should be able to. That is if she thinks paying your way sometimes is a good use of her money then great! If you're fretting the whole time you're out she's going to change her mind. If you're declining offers because you want to match what she spends it's not going to go well.

    She may eventually decide that she wants to date someone more financially successful, but worrying about it is more likely to bring that on. There are a million other things that could go wrong it isn't helpful to create problems.


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    I often have to push to pay equally because the guy feels it's his gentlemanly duty to pay, but fuck that shit. We all make money and can pay our own way. I don't need to have a guy cover my tab just because he's the guy.
    Now that's a different thing entirely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mountmccabe View Post
    I think it's reasonable to aim for roughly equal but keeping a running tally (not that you mean it that strongly, ThatGirl) to me isn't fun or sexy. Being over-concerned with who's paying what makes it all about money, exacerbates any issues by keeping them in the forefront.
    Were both pretty casual about it and it works. If he gets the tab for lunch, I'll get the dinner tab. But if one of us offers to treat for a special occasion or something that's different. It doesn't have to be rigid, just generally fair.
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    Sounds good! If you're happy with it, that's what's important. I've seen it get ridiculous and in the past have myself been too caught up in who pays for what, but not every relationship is going to go that way.
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    My ex-bf paid for most of stuff but every once in a while I paid. I was unemployed for much of our relationship, so it made sense.
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