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    I have a huge love for synth pop and things like Phil Collins, etc which she does not appreciate. She's a big punk/alt fan.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Drinkey McDrinkerstein View Post
    This. Although, it IS pretty fun having a girlfriend who loves music and going to concerts as much as I do. Although Heather hates '80s music, which is very distressing to me on a daily basis.
    For me the 80s are the best but my hubby loves Metal. When you put the CDs on shuffle in our house you could hear just about anything. But I've developed an appreciation for Iron Maiden and Monster Magnet.
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    Drinkey, I love that it's distressing for you that your girlfriend won't listen to Cyndi and Phil Collins.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IceyHotshot View Post
    Damn, I've been going to the gym again and those full size mirrors reveal one reason I get no action: I got big

    Now just need to find out how to rationalize the other 24 years.
    Not being a pussy is actually more important than being thin. Unless you're like 500lbs.
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    Aw Sean. I hope everything is ok. Where do you stand in terms of being part of their lives going forward?


    All is good on that front. We have gone to classes together, etc. I'll be in the delivery room, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Drinkey McDrinkerstein View Post
    I have a huge love for synth pop and things like Phil Collins, etc which she does not appreciate. She's a big punk/alt fan.
    Your gf has better taste than you do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by downingthief View Post
    I'll make sure there are no surprises this time.
    Inquiring minds want to know...
    Quote Originally Posted by efrain44 View Post
    Anyone know who the guy in the Cardinals jersey is? I've seen him in pictures on the board and I thought I saw him this year.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TomAz View Post
    Inquiring minds want to know...
    No Imperial entanglements.

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    It's ok Drinkey. I feel your pain.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SoulDischarge View Post
    Not being a pussy is actually more important than being thin. Unless you're like 500lbs.
    Completely true.
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    Stop worrying about what women want. All they want is your dick and you are the keeper of paradise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mugwog View Post
    Stop worrying about what women want. All they want is your dick and you are the keeper of paradise.
    I'm not a pussy, I'm not gonna have random hookups either.

    I have a date set for a show in Jan. Could be ok.
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    You're not going to have any hookups with that attitude. Look, dumbfuck, women aren't out there scouring the planet for a nice guy who wants to settle down. They're all over the place, any time she wants one. Grow a pair.
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    Hannah, I don't know that pigs have big weiners, and my early 20's facination with dogs because of weiner size, I think. If that helps.

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    Useful advice. Women would rather fuck around than settle down, so stop looking what you're looking for since you won't get it, and start looking for the last thing in the world you want.

    Now I remember why I stopped posting in this thread.
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    No, women want to settle down, but not with a guy who wants to settle down.
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    Hannah, I don't know that pigs have big weiners, and my early 20's facination with dogs because of weiner size, I think. If that helps.

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    Well I am at least going on dates now. So far nothing great has come of it. Still more potential than when I was doing nothing. "Making a move" on date one is still repulsive to me though, so if people on these boards are right, I won't get anywhere by doing this.
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    You making a move on any date is pretty repulsive.
    Quote Originally Posted by amyzzz View Post
    Hannah, I don't know that pigs have big weiners, and my early 20's facination with dogs because of weiner size, I think. If that helps.

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    Zing!
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    Puritan America, this is your legacy.

    Not being a predatory creep is a good thing. Being so afraid of sex that making a move is considered "repulsive" is an issue.
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    You are an idiot.

    This has nothing to do with "Puritan America"

    I have been through my reasons before. No need to reiterate.
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    He has a point, Icey.

    If you think that sex and affection are naturally "repulsive" women are going to pick up on it, and nobody wants to be made to feel that way by a hypothetical sexual partner.
    Quote Originally Posted by amyzzz View Post
    Hannah, I don't know that pigs have big weiners, and my early 20's facination with dogs because of weiner size, I think. If that helps.

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    with internet dates, i rarely want any sort of "moves" on a first date. i'm not repulsed by it, i'm just at a phase in my life where i want to get to know someone first.
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    I don't think sex and affection are naturally repulsive.

    I don't like when people only want physical action, it signals to me that they don't value me as a person whatsoever, and are a waste of my time.
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    Your life is yours, I don't give a fuck what you do with it. I just don't see finding natural sexual urges "repulsive" as being healthy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IceyHotshot View Post
    I don't think sex and affection are naturally repulsive.

    I don't like when people only want physical action, it signals to me that they don't value me as a person whatsoever, and are a waste of my time.
    ... okay seriously now--has anyone EVER given you that signal? Seriously?
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    Hannah, I don't know that pigs have big weiners, and my early 20's facination with dogs because of weiner size, I think. If that helps.

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    If you recall, this whole shitfest of a discussion of my (lack of) love life started because I was dissatisifed with being a virgin, i.e. not having sex. Yes I want to have sex but under certain conditions.

    I also have some issues to overcome, namely, any time a woman approaches me in public I think the worst and get offended. There are a good handful of stories where I was being hit on and thought the girl was just being a bitch for no reason, but didn't figure it out until later (i.e. when someone told me, "That girl was totally into you, what's your problem?". Yes I should figure out how to change that. No, this board cannot help me with that.

    I have a date coming up and hopefully it doesn't suck. The end.

    Edit: Randy, yes, but not often
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    ... holy shit. He is beyond help.
    Quote Originally Posted by amyzzz View Post
    Hannah, I don't know that pigs have big weiners, and my early 20's facination with dogs because of weiner size, I think. If that helps.

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    Here's the thing. You can want to have sex with someone, and want to have sex with someone soon, and still want to get to know more about them as, you know, people or whatever. Sex is an actual physical need, like hunger, although obviously not anywhere near as strong or essential, but still pretty damned essential. It's our biological imperative, we're hardwired to want to fuck and spread our seed far and wide. So, just like you might want to eat a decent meal before going on a hike, some times you might want to satisfy your physical needs before you move on to the more high minded stuff. That lizard brain needs to be appeased so it can shut the fuck up and let you focus. Everyone has their own pace, and yours is obviously slower than mine, which is fine. But judgements about consensual sex between adults is a sign of something wrong.

    Here's another thing. Not every connection you are going to have with a human being is going to be profoundly deep, and that doesn't make it bad or not worth pursuing. Some people you can talk about music with for hours but have nothing else in common with. Some people you're going to be able to shed every dark corner of your soul too, but would never want to get physically intimate with. And some people you're going to have an amazingly strong physical connection with and nothing else. It doesn't mean you are de-valuing them as a person, it just means that the common language that the two of you share happens to be primarily physical.

    Casual sex isn't for everyone. It can be dangerous, it can be unsatisfying, and some people use it irresponsibly and hurt themselves and others. But it is absolutely bullshit to be disgusted by your natural sexual desires (unless you're a pedophile, in which case, god save your wretched soul for that curse).
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    Look, I have absolutely no problem with others having casual sex if they want to. In fact if it's right for them I encourage it. I don't ignore my sexual appetite, I mean, I watch porn just as much as any normal 25 year old single male would.

    I am an incredibly shy person, who dislikes physical contact in general - I tend to almost always wave goodbye rather than giving hugs - and I have to trust someone before I do something physical with them.

    The last girlfriend I had, we kissed on our second date, and it was fine, and I made the move. I actually really wanted to lose the v-card with her, but she came from a Persian family and had really traditional views on sex and marriage, so it didn't happen (I also never pressured her on it, which may or may not have been a mistake)

    I appreciate the thoughtful reply. I apologize for calling you an idiot.
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    Alright then.
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