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    More a sports saying but I think it is applicable. It doesn't matter how many times you get knocked down but how many times you get up. I think you'll be feeling awesome and shit again soon.


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    Barbz, you know my predicament. It will be a long time before I trust anyone or even think about dating.

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    My new girlfriend, we've been dating for a month, kisses her guy bestfriend on the forehead. I know it's a sign of endearment, but does anyone else find this odd?
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    Not really. I have mostly female friends, and while there is no forehead kissing, there is a lot hugging/heads on shoulders/other things that might look odd to a new girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by herro kitty View Post
    How does anyone trust anyone? My mom told me a story about her friend who dated a guy for 17 years. 17 fucking years. Finally one day, the dude comes up to my mom's friend and says, "I'm ready to get married." Her friend gets so excited... until the dude says, "to this other woman I've been seeing this whole time. Good bye forever." What the fuck. Fuck!

    Sigh. I drank a lot of coffee so I'm hopped up and anxious.
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    "Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."
    Its like the Infinite Monkey Theorem, if you put X amount of monkeys in a room with a typewriter and ask them to give you Shakespeare 99% of them will fling their shit at you while the other 1% will masturbate in the corner.

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    I met my wife whilst in a "I can never trust women again" funk, so anything is possible.
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    There's so many great break-up songs out there to be felt like they were written just for you. Rejoice in being dumped. And just, you know, channel your inner freak for awhile as you let your inner romantic sit on the sidelines and heal. While the phrase "You can have any boy you want" is a poor one, in your case Barb, I'd say the number of awesome, sexy guys who would reject you is astronomically lower than the majority of other people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rjadams90 View Post
    My new girlfriend, we've been dating for a month, kisses her guy bestfriend on the forehead. I know it's a sign of endearment, but does anyone else find this odd?
    I find you odd for finding it odd, actually.
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    Maybe he meant the forehead of the guy's cock.
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    Quote Originally Posted by M Sparks View Post
    Not really. I have mostly female friends, and while there is no forehead kissing, there is a lot hugging/heads on shoulders/other things that might look odd to a new girlfriend.
    Bigger question: is a man with all female friends or a woman with all male friends a red flag? If I didn't know Sparks, I would definitely say yes, but now I'm not so sure.

    Thinking of the girls I know with no female friends, they pretty universally have issues with craving male attention to the point where they value it above female attention. This is pretty classic "daddy issue" stuff. But I don't know -- I'm dealing with a very small sample here. Are my observations the exception or the norm?
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    Thanks for the input. I appreciate it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtney View Post
    Bigger question: is a man with all female friends or a woman with all male friends a red flag? If I didn't know Sparks, I would definitely say yes, but now I'm not so sure.
    I thought this was gone over some pages ago?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rjadams90 View Post
    Thanks for the input. I appreciate it.
    I think it's weird. That being said, I wouldn't read too much into it.
    Quote Originally Posted by Courtney View Post
    Bigger question: is a man with all female friends or a woman with all male friends a red flag? If I didn't know Sparks, I would definitely say yes, but now I'm not so sure.
    I have a few female friends who only hang out with guys. Their reasoning: "women are catty bitches." I respect that.

    EDIT* I've never heard of any straight guys only having female friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtney View Post
    Bigger question: is a man with all female friends or a woman with all male friends a red flag?
    I have mostly male friends, locally. It has really bothered a couple of guys, which I took as a red flag that they were going to be too insecure and too jealous for me to want to continue dating them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chiapet View Post
    It has really bothered a couple of guys, which I took as a red flag that they were going to be too insecure and too jealous for me to want to continue dating them.
    Exactly. Don't waste your time with these types.
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    I hadn't realized that the OKCupid app (apparently) doesn't sign you out. The "Locals" thing started popping up with messages the moment I got off the plane in Vegas. Mostly really gross looking, older, MARRIED guys.

    However, I noticed a lot of younger, attractive nerdy types setting their status that they are here for the same conference I am here for... a couple of them, I recognized as working for the same company I work for. Which would mean they are staying in the same casino hotel as me. Temptation....

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    Quote Originally Posted by guedita View Post
    Baby gurllll. You know that for every story like this, there are other successful stories about honestly good people who treat one another with love and respect. Come on.
    I honestly don't hear of many. I guess that could be because those stories aren't as interesting and therefore are not retold often.

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    There's so many great break-up songs out there to be felt like they were written just for you. Rejoice in being dumped. And just, you know, channel your inner freak for awhile as you let your inner romantic sit on the sidelines and heal. While the phrase "You can have any boy you want" is a poor one, in your case Barb, I'd say the number of awesome, sexy guys who would reject you is astronomically lower than the majority of other people.
    Make me a playlist, please. I have been only listening to instrumental music these past few months, because I found myself whimpering and eventually crying over every stupid love song. Sigh.

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    Any single folk just not into the whole dating thing? I can't be alone in just not caring. Nothing against those pursuing relationships, it's just that dating never really piqued my interest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by chiapet View Post
    I hadn't realized that the OKCupid app (apparently) doesn't sign you out. The "Locals" thing started popping up with messages the moment I got off the plane in Vegas. Mostly really gross looking, older, MARRIED guys.

    However, I noticed a lot of younger, attractive nerdy types setting their status that they are here for the same conference I am here for... a couple of them, I recognized as working for the same company I work for. Which would mean they are staying in the same casino hotel as me. Temptation....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Courtney View Post
    Bigger question: is a man with all female friends or a woman with all male friends a red flag? If I didn't know Sparks, I would definitely say yes, but now I'm not so sure.
    Red flag for gay? Or some kind of emotional problem? I've pretty much always been that way. (EDIT- Friends with women, not gay. Emotional problems is up for interpretation.)

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    EDIT* I've never heard of any straight guys only having female friends.
    Not ONLY female. But...60/40? 70/30? I just get along with women better. I don't like professional sports of any kind, so that eliminates a lot of male bonding topics.

    I just had an incredible weekend with Ms Veggie Burger. Jadedness and negativity lifting. I might have to exit this thread for a while.

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    Quote Originally Posted by herro kitty View Post
    Make me a playlist, please. I have been only listening to instrumental music these past few months, because I found myself whimpering and eventually crying over every stupid love song. Sigh.
    In some ways, I think it's good to wallow in it as long as it's not 24/7. I listened to a lot of Frightened Rabbit during my divorce. I listened to The Mountain Goats "No Children" on infinite repeat. Eventually, it became a kind of "Well, it's not as bad as these songs."

    But this is a good pick-me-up/screw you song. "I'll make sure that you regret the one that you rejected."

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    I have more lady friends than guy friends. All but maybe three of my current guy friends I met on this board. Of those three I really only keep in touch with one on a daily basis and we never talk about "bro" stuff so I don't think it's completely uncommon. If I'm pursuing a girl and have a lot of girl friends, I would assume she means that much more to me considering the eventual scrutiny etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by M Sparks View Post
    Red flag for gay? Or some kind of emotional problem? I've pretty much always been that way. (EDIT- Friends with women, not gay. Emotional problems is up for interpretation.)

    Not ONLY female. But...60/40? 70/30? I just get along with women better. I don't like professional sports of any kind, so that eliminates a lot of male bonding topics.
    It definitely doesn't imply gay, but it could potentially imply some sort of emotional or socialization problems. I mean, 60/40 isn't a big deal, but if I'm dating a guy and he NEVER mentions a single man he is friends with, I start to worry a little bit. It says something about a person if he/she is unable to get along with 50% of the human population.

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    I just had an incredible weekend with Ms Veggie Burger. Jadedness and negativity lifting. I might have to exit this thread for a while.
    Aw yay. You should tell us more.

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    If I'm pursuing a girl and have a lot of girl friends, I would assume she means that much more to me considering the eventual scrutiny etc.
    I don't understand what you're saying here. Please explain.

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    So I had an interesting time with my first ever online date last night. First off she was about 40 mins late(she did text me but I didn't realize my phone was on silent). However I wasn't to upset because I randomly ran into some friends at the bar we were meeting at. Unfortunately this led to me having some shots/drinks with them and by the time she showed up I was already pretty drunk. That wasn't the best first impression I wanted to present my self with but she was fine with it. She then explained that she was late because he babysitter was late. That was an immediate red flag for me considering there was no previous mention of a kid at all and kind of a deal breaker for me. Not trying to sound like an asshole but I'm only 23 and not trying to be involved with someone who has a kid. Other then that though we actually had a good conversation and she is a cool girl that I can see a friendship with but nothing more at this point in time. She left after a few hours and I went and met up with the friends I ran into early and long story short have a massive hang over today.
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    I had a great date Friday night with an incredibly awesome girl. I actually grew some balls and kissed her at the end of the date (which I had not done with any OKC date previously) and thought everything was cool. Sent her a text Saturday saying I had a great time and that I'm looking forward to seeing her again... and nothing or no response since then. I can see she is online right now too. Of all the OKC dates the past few months this is only the second one where I was *completely* digging the person physically and mentally and it's so fucking depressing to not get that mutual feeling back. After so many failures I just feel as if there is just something wrong with me and it's really beginning to affect me.

    If she doesn't reach out this week I am just going to ask her straight out to be honest (none of this "no spark" bullshit) and tell me what the fuck I did wrong and/or what the issue is because I just need to know.

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    Okay but you realize that the "no spark" bullshit isn't always bullshit? Sometimes people are just completely not attracted to other people for whatever reason.

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    I had a great date Friday night with an incredibly awesome girl. I actually grew some balls and kissed her at the end of the date (which I had not done with any OKC date previously) and thought everything was cool. Sent her a text Saturday saying I had a great time and that I'm looking forward to seeing her again... and nothing or no response since then. I can see she is online right now too. Of all the OKC dates the past few months this is only the second one where I was *completely* digging the person physically and mentally and it's so fucking depressing to not get that mutual feeling back. After so many failures I just feel as if there is just something wrong with me and it's really beginning to affect me.

    If she doesn't reach out this week I am just going to ask her straight out to be honest (none of this "no spark" bullshit) and tell me what the fuck I did wrong and/or what the issue is because I just need to know.
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    only 1% or less of guys are actually attractive, the rest you need to fantasize and fairy tale around to make them work for you

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