It Rubs The Lotion On Its Skin: A Thread About Dating

[lt.roast.a.botch]

The fact he initiated conversation is a good thing. But it sounds like there is a lot of things going on that cant be diagnosed over the internet. Personally, I like to just talk it out because then both parties know what each other are thinking and eliminates the mind game of trying to figure out what the other person is thinking. Just make sure you know what you want for sure before talking to him [hook up or friends] and be prepared for any answer he may give. It sucks if it ends up that you're on different pages but it makes it a lot easier to just move on. But if both end up being on the same page, then game on.

The other option is what unit suggests which is give him another chance for another date of his choice and if he flakes then he isnt worth your time.

[weeklymix]

[Neighborhood Creep]

[nathanfairchild]

uh oh....

[M Sparks]

I love you, Zack.

I'm taking a day trip with Ms Veggie Burger this Saturday.

[wstsidela]

WOW!

[GrossMagic]

Post of the year.

[Neighborhood Creep]

What's this self absorbed bitch going to say when she sees Weekly's post?

[romanticizer]

What's this self absorbed bitch going to say when she sees Weekly's post?

She'll probably say something like:

I hate everything.

P.S. If the Charlie Chaplin confession wasn't enough for me to fall in love with Weekly, this is. Holy cow.

[wstsidela]

That's pretty damn funny. Well played, sir.

[SoulDischarge]

I'm putting my bet on the misogyny card getting played.

Also, is anyone else weirded out by the choice of the word "Quiver" as the title of OKC's matching algorithm or whatever?

[weeklymix]

P.S. If the Charlie Chaplin confession wasn't enough for me to fall in love with Weekly, this is. Holy cow.

We should go on a date sometime?

[frizzlefry]

Also, is anyone else weirded out by the choice of the word "Quiver" as the title of OKC's matching algorithm or whatever?

I like having possible lovers in my quiver

[chiapet]

Wait.. roast a bitch, did you really just say what white people only want white people?

That's not true. I want tall, somewhat pretty Asian guys.

So far OKCupid is not delivering on this.

[guedita]

I don't see how this is relevant because

1. I don't know you
2. I've maybe said 2 words to you
3. "Showing interest" means in person

Not to sound like a total slut bag, Weekly, but this is me, showing you interest.

[BROKENDOLL]

Fine line between being constructive and being rude.

Just think, if you had kept your mouth shut you would have gotten a blow job.

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[Originalbob]

I shouldn't say anything, but...

Hahahahaha
Sorry, I laugh at everything.

[lt.roast.a.botch]

Wait.. roast a bitch, did you really just say what white people only want white people?

That's not true. I want tall, somewhat pretty Asian guys.

So far OKCupid is not delivering on this.

Just observations from anti-square's link. Not about anyone's particular preference.

LINK

[Neighborhood Creep]

Not to sound like a total slut bag, Weekly, but this is me, showing you interest.

YOU SLUT!

[Neighborhood Creep]

Not to sound like a total slut bag, Weekly, but this is me, showing you interest.

YOU SLUT!

Hey Weekly, I told you bitches love pies

[faxman75]

So after several daily back and forth messages with lemonworld, I finally asked her out for a drink. She looked at my profile again the day after I sent the message and decided to not reply. Oh well, I answered some more questions and messaged 5 other girls I apparently had good compatability. I will not give up until I get at least one date form this damn site. I'm on a mission. It's a numbers game and it's all about how low i'm willing to go on the standards scale. I'm already making concessions on looks land messaging girls who aren't all that attractive....I will NOT make those same concessions on brains and ideals though. I will not date some annoying moron just because I am annoying.

[Robin]

For some strange reason, I'm finding myself quite infatuated with Weekly.

[anti-square]

This one is for you Fax.

from the same blog

[jimmycrackcorn]

However if you do manage to sleep with him again I would probably bring your "A-Game" though.

= anal

[obzen]

There is only one word that can sum this up, crushingblows.

[HandBanana]

Oh my dear god that was brilliant.

[faxman75]

This one is for you Fax.

from the same blog

That blog says I should greet someone with "yo" as opposed to "hi" or "hello" yet they also say I should be very literate in my messages. Honestly, I pretty much do all of the other recommendations including their "consider being atheist". Apparently the most important message I can take away from reading that link is to start my messages with "how's it going" instead of "hi". Got it.

[downingthief]

Think I am going to take a "break" from dating for awhile. Been going out on various dates over the last year or so, and just burned out I think. Plus, it is so damn expensive. Gonna miss the sex, though. Need to go cash in my FwB chips...

[HotHamWater]

So the crazy eyes WERE real?


Just kidding, man. Sucks it apparently didn't work out. Sit the next few play out and try again.

[downingthief]

So the crazy eyes WERE real?


Just kidding, man. Sucks it apparently didn't work out. Sit the next few play out and try again.

Ha! We decided to back off for now. We like each other, and enjoy each other's company...just not feeling "it" as of now. Maybe a break will do us some good, or just make us realize our suspicions are correct.