Get to know your fellow board members....

[amyzzz]

What would you like to be called?

[allyjoy]

Mostly just variations on my name. Most people call me Pat instead of Patrick. I don't really have a preference and don't really pay attention to which people use. Pat sounds kind of stupid, but Patrick is kind of awkward to say. Some of my friend's used to call be Big Pat or BP for short, but I always though that was pretty stupid.

Can I call you my trick?

[SoulDischarge]

Babygirls, I don't care what you call me, so long as you do call me.

[fatbastard]

I'm around 6'5" and fluctuate between 320-330 lbs.

I can double my wardrobe if you were to move in.

[pancakespancakes]

Story behind the name "SoulDischarge"?

[algunz]

Pumpkin, have you always been overweight? Does it bother you? How do you feel about the weight obsessed society we live in, and who is your favorite fat celebrity?

[bmack86]

Story behind the name "SoulDischarge"?

Hell, I can answer this one.



That album right there is Soul Discharge by Boredoms. One of their early releases and one of their best as well.

[canexplain]

soul, there are a number of gay people here on the board ... do you feel a special affinity towards them, or is that a stereotype that we have ? cr****

[Pixiessp]

there are gay people on this board?

[allyjoy]

*giggle*

[SoulDischarge]

Pumpkin, have you always been overweight? Does it bother you? How do you feel about the weight obsessed society we live in, and who is your favorite fat celebrity?

I was looking at pictures of when I was a kid a little while ago, and while I wasn't trim or anything, I wasn't really overweight, so I'm guessing it happened some time around the beginning of my teen years. It might have bothered me at one time, but now it's really only an inconvenience when it comes to things like clothes shopping, airplanes, and amusement park rides. I also worry about my health. But as far as body image goes, I'm ok with it. It's something I find attractive in other guys, and I know that there are people who find it attractive on me, so I'm not going to waste my precious self-loathing on my body when there's far better aspects of myself to devote it to.

The weight obsession in our society kind of annoys me, but so do most things that demonized for no other reason except to boost superiority and inferiority complexes and sell product. It annoys me to listen to (usually relatively thin) people bitch about how fat they are and how they need to lose weight and go on a diet and etc. Most of the time it feels like they can't accept the body type that they have more than they're worrying about getting in better shape or anything productive. But they're their own people, so whatever, just so long as they shut the fuck up about how fat they feel/look around me. Cosmetic plastic surgery kind of weirds me out too. Although I think there should be a trend where people get plastic surgery to look more like mutants. I would support that.

There's not very many fat celebrities I give a fuck about or am attracted to. Divine was pretty great, but I'm not attracted to him. I've got a crush on the singer from Fucked Up though.

soul, there are a number of gay people here on the board ... do you feel a special affinity towards them, or is that a stereotype that we have ? cr****

It's very rare that I meet queers with similar interests, so in a way, yes. But all the people that I know that are out on this board are pretty cool regardless of the fact that they're homos. At least 90% of gays that I've met I can't relate to on a personal level, though.

there are gay people on this board?

Only the aliases.

[algunz]

The weight obsession in our society kind of annoys me, but so do most things that demonized for no other reason except to boost superiority and inferiority complexes and sell product. It annoys me to listen to (usually relatively thin) people bitch about how fat they are and how they need to lose weight and go on a diet and etc. Most of the time it feels like they can't accept the body type that they have more than they're worrying about getting in better shape or anything productive. But they're their own people, so whatever, just so long as they shut the fuck up about how fat they feel/look around me.

It infuriates me. The only reason I bring it up, ever, is because of the health issues. I've also noticed that a lot of people that are not at their ideal weight (too fat and too skinny) are often unhappy, and that makes me sad because there are things that can be done to help. So to hear that you're content is reassuring.

Cosmetic plastic surgery kind of weirds me out too. Although I think there should be a trend where people get plastic surgery to look more like mutants. I would support that.

Like the Twilight Zone.

[fiyahhh!]

Pumpkin,
Please give us three songs to go with the following situations:
You just found out you're moving out of Ohio.
You've just been told you have to work overtime after a horrible day.
That cute bear at the end of the bar just gave you the eye.

Is there anything that wasn't asked of you that you would like to divulge?

Also, seeing as how you work long hours, will you be naming the next victim tonight, or tomorrow morning before work? What's the most incomprehensibly stupid thing anyone has ever asked you at work?

[bmack86]

Patrick, I really like your view on weight. Kudos. I'm trying to lose weight right now, but more to see how it'll change my health.

How did you first hear the wild crazy fucked up shit that both of us are fans of?

[allyjoy]

If you could create a holiday, when would it be, what is it called, and what are we celebrating?

This question is harder than I thought and I will give it more consideration.

*ahem* the sun's setting on your week, my trick. I want an answer please so I can add it to my 2009 calendar

[pancakespancakes]

I'm pretty sure anything like this hasn't been asked yet, but this question to me seems like of paramount importance to the real purpose of the thread...

Why do you post here in the Coachella Messag Board? What do you like/love about it? What do you dislike about it?

[algunz]

All right already, who is in the hot seat tomorrow? I need to begin to prepare my questions.

[SoulDischarge]

So I just had a weird night and I kind of feel like a homewrecker at the moment, so I'm not going to answer any questions. What page is the most recent list of who all has already gone so I can make my choice?

[boarderwoozel3]

Based on that post I'd like to extend this question session by a day or two. Or you could just tell us what happened, sounds scandalous.

[SoulDischarge]

I won't go into details. I'll just say I know a couple where one of the members thought he was ready for an open relationship but really wasn't.

[RotationSlimWang]

You won't go into details? My fucking ass you won't go into details--you don't get to drop a snuke like that and then walk away. Give us all the gorey, gay-y details.

[SoulDischarge]

An indoor pool was involved and penetration was not.

[boarderwoozel3]

Fair enough, I can see things getting awkward in a hurry if someone had regrets after that bridge got crossed.

[RotationSlimWang]

... handjobs?

[locachica73]

My theory is if you have to invite someone into your relationship then there is something wrong with your relationship in the first place. There are very few couples, no matter how much they think they might be ready, who aren't going to feel some guilt after the first "experience". Sometimes it scares them off for all future experiences and sometimes not.

[chairmenmeow47]

a relationship with one person takes a ton of effort. i don't know why you'd want to add another person into the mix. but hey, if you're going to get involved in something like that, best to be the newbie cause then you're the star attraction.

[amyzzz]

Bullshit. Some people can handle those kinds of relationships. Perhaps most people cannot, but you should not make such general statements to encompass everyone.

[chairmenmeow47]

Bullshit. Some people can handle those kinds of relationships. Perhaps most people cannot, but you should not make such general statements to encompass everyone.

i really don't see any general statements above that encomass everyone...

[wmgaretjax]

My theory is if you have to invite someone into your relationship then there is something wrong with your relationship in the first place.

This is a moronic statement. Why in the world does expanding a relationship automatically designate there is a problem?

[locachica73]

This is true, I have met alot of swingers in my day I guess. But I also was in a relationship with someone who pushed for the threesome and then other things, I did it after alot of pressure and alot of weed, he then became overly jealous and told me I enjoyed it too much. After that I guess my view might be a bit jaded. I just want to be with someone who only wants to be with me and who I only want to be with. I don't see any problem with flirting, in fact I think its good for a relationship to know that others find your SO attractive. But if I want to fuck around then I take a serious look at my relationship because I just think it means there must be something missing. But to each thier own.