Last edited by SacredxSuperman; 06-09-2008 at 10:44 PM.
tell her you'll be fine with threesomes!!
Maturity is the measure of how good you are at goodbye.
Grow the fuck up.
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ok you guyz...
give the guy a break.. he is having a hard time and while i will admit, i can come up with some pretty witty responses to his plight, i feel bad.. and besides, we have all had these moments.
sometimes it is just not meant to be. there are other girlz out there. BUT if you think somewhere deep down, she may still want to have something to do with you.. then go for it, pursue it. but dont pursue it with such fervor that you are going to get slapped in the fucking face with the big fat reality stick. you dont want to drive her away and you dont want to hear "i dont want anything to do with you." be subtle. take your time. and the opportunity will present itself. if not... get drunk, eat ice cream, and go to a strip club... but mind you... dont do all three of those things at the same time.
There needs to be a strip club where they serve beer AND ice cream too.
Better yet, where the strippers get buckets of ice cream poured on them.
Yep, awesome mental image.
20 years old...I'd like to just say, "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, then it never was..." Unfortunately, that's not so easy when it may be the first person to actually capture your heart. Because of the trust issues, and to avoid having them grow into permanent issues in the future, right now, set her free. It hurts for awhile, but not nearly as much as always wondering about the other's feelings or honesty and setting yourself up for more heartache with that same person. Honestly, neither one of you are ready to settle down if there's already issues of anything between you. You have to learn what love really is first...
Its like the Infinite Monkey Theorem, if you put X amount of monkeys in a room with a typewriter and ask them to give you Shakespeare 99% of them will fling their shit at you while the other 1% will masturbate in the corner.
Forget strippers, it's all about the hookers.
8/20 SISU and Tanlines @ Sayers Club, 8/21 The Zombies @ Santa Monica Pier, 8/23-24 FYF Fest, 9/10 Swans @ Roxy, 9/18 Neutral Milk Hotel & Daniel Johnston @ Hollywood Bowl, 9/19 Tokimonsta @ El Rey, 9/30 Cibo Matto @ the Roxy, 10/3-4 Desert Stars, 10/9 Zola Jesus @ El Rey, 10/16 Massive Attack @ Greek Theater, 10/22-25 CMJ, 10/26 Asobi Seksu & Slowdive @ Royale
Send her dead flowers.
The persistent kisser guy is banging her now. Move on.
i don't know Superman... the chick seems a little flighty...
the 'he really wanted to kiss me' crap sounds like total bullshit... two, tango, etc....
u do need to move on... and 3 years from now you'll look back at this and realize what a god damn blessing it was that you did...
what i did was develop a really bad 'fuck off world' attitude & then suddenly i had more women throw themselves at me than i could deal with...
"barely told her I loved her and showed her how I felt"
This was your biggest mistake.
love is........ love is........ LOVE IS...........
fill in the blank. It has many definitions yet none.
move on buddy.
also, the girlfriend sounds shady. some guy kept forcing himself upon her and she just sat there and gave in when you're her boyfriend? who was this guy? why was he at her house in the first place if he did douchebag stuff like this? why did she HAVE HIM OVER in the first place? and more importantly, WHY DID YOU BUY HER BULLSHIT AND TAKE HER BACK THE FIRST TIME?!
like dr. drew on loveline says, each time you talk to someone after a break-up, you're resetting the break-up clock and just prolonging the inevitable. stop talking to her for an extended period of time. stop checking her myspace. stop talking to mutual friends about her. learn from the mistakes and move on.
and don't air your relationship drama online. you're never going to get the response you want.
sorry to hear for your trouble and best of luck
YongBloods sister is a quick fix.
everyone brings up great points but D00d your 20, meaning a baby with so much opportunity and pussy ahead. There are so many great chicks out there and so few guys...be your cool self and make new friends and loose the pressure you are experiencing with your current ex-girlfriend it displays as a big warning sign DESPERATE & INSECURE...