i was referring to the redhotsgtpeppers dude's comment.
not many people at all leave the house saying "i'm going to hang out with a guy who likes me and totally let him down passive-aggressively over the next few days!" this shit just happens. you think you like someone, you spend some time together, and realize it's not as great as you thought. it can take time to articulate these feelings because you WANT to like this whole relationship thing more but you just don't.
and it's not always personal. sometimes your personalities don't mix. sometimes people are not what you are looking for. it's ok.
and i concur, tommy. i haven't brought anyone water in a long time.