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Deviate_420
10-08-2008, 07:38 PM
So I am getting married two weeks from Saturday and I am absolutly terrified. Everything is pretty much done but I mean I AM GETTING FUCKING MARRIED!!!! My life is going to dramaticly change. I am now obligated to act like an adult and all that good shit. I don't know maybe I just need to vent..

PS ITS JITTERS...

suprefan
10-08-2008, 07:41 PM
We expect wedding photos when you return from your honeymoon.

marooko
10-08-2008, 07:41 PM
congratulations.

Young blood
10-08-2008, 07:42 PM
you will make a lovely bride.

Deviate_420
10-08-2008, 07:43 PM
you will make a lovely bride.

Thank you very much. That means a lot..

Young blood
10-08-2008, 07:45 PM
when gay jokes go wrong.

Deviate_420
10-08-2008, 07:48 PM
We expect wedding photos when you return from your honeymoon.

Chris, I think you are a pretty big douch, however I think you are a pretty good photographer and I would like you to come and take pictures for myself and this board. I will pay you if need be and i will seat you at the singles table where there are 6 chicks and 3 guys...

menikmati
10-08-2008, 07:52 PM
I'd take that job.

Mr.Nipples
10-08-2008, 07:56 PM
pre wedding shitters

Young blood
10-08-2008, 08:06 PM
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r25/pookie2214/Yankees/45fb80403ae1af225e25eb707e80fb95-ge.jpg



dude can be creepy.

gaypalmsprings
10-08-2008, 08:14 PM
http://www.simongorgin.com/images/img_bridezilla.jpg

http://www.electriceel.com/images/jetters.gif

BROKENDOLL
10-08-2008, 08:41 PM
So I am getting married two weeks from Saturday and I am absolutly terrified. Everything is pretty much done but I mean I AM GETTING FUCKING MARRIED!!!! My life is going to dramaticly change. I am now obligated to act like an adult and all that good shit. I don't know maybe I just need to vent..

PS ITS JITTERS... I don't think I've ever seen vows that say anything about being obligated to being an adult once you say, "I do." If that were the case, you'ld miss out on "all the good shit!" BTW...Congrats to you both!

thestripe
10-08-2008, 08:42 PM
You're gal is plenty experienced. The 100% approves.

chairmenmeow47
10-08-2008, 08:42 PM
Chris, I think you are a pretty big douch, however I think you are a pretty good photographer and I would like you to come and take pictures for myself and this board. I will pay you if need be and i will seat you at the singles table where there are 6 chicks and 3 guys...

god forbid the breeders and the old maids mix, lol.

psychic friend
10-08-2008, 08:57 PM
So I am getting married two weeks from Saturday and I am absolutly terrified. Everything is pretty much done but I mean I AM GETTING FUCKING MARRIED!!!! My life is going to dramaticly change. I am now obligated to act like an adult and all that good shit. I don't know maybe I just need to vent..

PS ITS JITTERS...

no worries, 48% of marriages work out.

BROKENDOLL
10-08-2008, 09:22 PM
no worries, 48% of marriages work out. And the secret there is learning to simply nod your head, "yes," followed up with smiling like you understand. You don't have to understand and don't try. That's what the other 52% fucked up and did. If that sounds unfair or unreasonable, believe me, it's not...we do it all the time!

shakermaker113
10-08-2008, 09:24 PM
My life is going to dramaticly change. I am now obligated to act like an adult and all that good shit. I don't know maybe I just need to vent...

I've not been married before, but I'm sure it won't be a dramatic change. any overnight change sounds like something is wrong. I don't mean to preach. I just think that the days after a wedding won't (shouldn't) be much different to the days before. (except for the lack of wedding planning).

matildawong
10-08-2008, 09:26 PM
You'll be ok deviate. I just got married 2 weeks ago and now that we're back home, everything is pretty much the same as it ever was. We're not magically grown-ups now or anything ... I mean that in a nice, soothing way. And, congratulations!

Deviate_420
10-08-2008, 09:34 PM
I love this message board. Thank guys...

luckyface
10-08-2008, 11:14 PM
You'll be ok deviate. I just got married 2 weeks ago and now that we're back home, everything is pretty much the same as it ever was. We're not magically grown-ups now or anything ... I mean that in a nice, soothing way. And, congratulations!

This is pretty much the case. And yes, congrats!

You can also have something really terrible happen to you a week before the wedding that puts everything in perspective and erases the jitters completely.

rskapcat
10-09-2008, 05:30 AM
I've been married for over 8 years. Yes, SOME things change when you get married. But it's not like you become a pod person. My husband and I still watch Ren & Stimpy and do the same stuff we did when when we were just dating. We have a mortgage and responsibilities and stuff, but we certainly don't feel like grown-ups. Most of the time we feel like imposters...15-year-olds pretending to be responsible adults.

My husband is my best friend and I'm thankful for him every day. Marriage can be awesome. Have faith.

Best of luck to you! :)

fatbastard
10-09-2008, 05:49 AM
Marriage doesn't mean that you have to act like an adult. The key word for a marriage is compromise. I grew up in a house that had a bread box. The wife grew up in a house that kept their bread in the fridge. We fought about it and I remember pulling that Efin bread from the fridge into the breadbox out of spite. 20 years later, you know what? I don't even know if we have bread in the house right now! You need to learn to make new rules with your new wife and forget about the previous rules that you lived by (or thought you had to).

Chris, pick up a piece of cake for me if you land up going to this wedding.

TeamCoachellaHellYeah
10-09-2008, 05:52 AM
The only things that change after you get married is the nagging goes up 10 to 20 percent.

TeamCoachellaHellYeah
10-09-2008, 05:53 AM
http://www.simongorgin.com/images/img_bridezilla.jpg


that's hot.

Deviate_420
10-09-2008, 07:21 AM
Marriage doesn't mean that you have to act like an adult. The key word for a marriage is compromise. I grew up in a house that had a bread box. The wife grew up in a house that kept their bread in the fridge. We fought about it and I remember pulling that Efin bread from the fridge into the breadbox out of spite. 20 years later, you know what? I don't even know if we have bread in the house right now! You need to learn to make new rules with your new wife and forget about the previous rules that you lived by (or thought you had to).

Chris, pick up a piece of cake for me if you land up going to this wedding.

This was the PERFECT story! Thanks.

frozen pilgrim
10-09-2008, 07:24 AM
I read this as
"pre-wedding letters"
which is something I know some people do-
you each write a letter to each other, to be opened on a designated anniversary, like your fifth or tenth, describing how you feel about the other. it's supposed to help you think about why you love the person you're marrying, and then in a few years, you can both get that feeling back when you open the letters

TomAz
10-09-2008, 07:35 AM
I've been married a long time. It is what you make of it. two people who want to stay married to each other can get through pretty much anything.

rskapcat
10-09-2008, 07:45 AM
I've been married a long time. It is what you make of it. two people who want to stay married to each other can get through pretty much anything.

QFT!

canexplain
10-09-2008, 07:54 AM
I've been married a long time. It is what you make of it. two people who want to stay married to each other can get through pretty much anything.

agree but then i was married for 10 years and then for 20 years and it didnt last but i would not trade the entire marriage (s) for anything (well just a few days thats for sure) .... so congrats and good luck to you both ...x****

bug on your lip
10-09-2008, 08:03 AM
I've been married a long time. It is what you make of it. two people who want to stay married to each other can get through pretty much anything.

http://www.gurtagaddinanded.com/Images/SriGuruArjandevJI.jpg

TomAz
10-09-2008, 08:06 AM
that looks more like bmack than me.

bug on your lip
10-09-2008, 08:11 AM
it's more about knowledge than looks Tom

quit being so god damn superficial

TomAz
10-09-2008, 08:19 AM
hey that green shell you're wearing is pretty fuckin hot

bug on your lip
10-09-2008, 08:30 AM
i'm also wearing a green speedo

amyzzz
10-09-2008, 10:05 AM
Congrats and good luck! And they're right -- the key is compromise. My parents will have been married 40 years this coming Valentine's Day, and my mom is crazy. I'm talking crazy insane (yeah, I inherited that from her). But my dad puts up with it because he loves her.

paganman7
10-09-2008, 10:44 AM
Your life won't change nearly as much as you'd think.

The biggest transition for me was referring to my girlfriend of 9 years as my wife. It took me about a year to get comfortable with that term.